God: Either You Trust Him Or You Don’t.

Some of you will recall that I spoke with a licensing agent here in Lubbock, Matt Yubas, last Tuesday. Well, to be honest he was rather underwhelmed by my screwdriver idea, and felt there would be simply too much competition at this point to justify his representing it right now. I knew that it would be a numbers game, and that even if ONE person doesn’t go gah-gah over it, I should still shop it around to others in the meantime. Get a few second opinions and all. Still, it was saddening, and I was pretty depressed for a day or two.

Then on Thursday, he calls me back, out of the blue. Seems he’s writing a book on Patents & Inventing, and he wanted to enlist my services as a reader. Someone who would take a look at the naked copy, make sure it made sense, and give him immediate feedback. In exchange, he’d be willing to answer any questions I might have regarding the information I read. He’d like to fast-track this, and meet 3 times a week, for an hour at a time.

I’ll be honest. When I first heard his offer, I wasn’t thrilled with the idea. I’d much rather have him evaluate more of my ideas for licensing potential than get info on patents (which very few of my ideas would even warrant…). But then I realized the true value in his offer: a relationship.

Even if I don’t get much out of the book itself (and so far, I’m getting a lot), I’ll be establishing a relationship as a respected peer with a guy who’s been licensing ideas for over 20 years. In a very real way, I’ll be establishing a relationship with an inventing mentor. PLUS, instead of just reading a book about the in’s and out’s of inventing and hoping I pick up the info inside, I’m able to interact with and have a dialogue with the AUTHOR, getting clarification or insight into any areas that are unclear. This is HUGE.

This experience has underscored the fact that God truly IS the ONLY way I’m going to have success as an inventor and an author. I didn’t have anything to do with Matt‘s calling me back for the offer. That was totally God working in the background, and I recognize it and praise Him for it.

And you know what? This has also served to kill off any fears I might have had about the future. Do I need to worry about matching my ideas with the right manufacturer? Nope. God’s got it covered. Should I freak out about finding a literary agent and a publisher for my book? No reason – God’s got it all planned out for me.

Every fear and concern that I’ve had over the last year – “How am I going to do this?” “What if I make a mistake?” “How will I meet the right people?” – they’re all shrinking in the reality of His glory and ultimate control. I don’t have to worry about a THING. I can take my hands off wheel and let Him drive my life, and not worry whether we’re headed for a cliff or into an oncoming semi-trailer or what. He KNOWS what I need, and He’ll only give me what’s best for me. I can TRUST Him.

There’s something else, though. I’ve had two separate people (both spiritual mentors in my life) say that things are about to change for me, in a big way. They both say that I need to get ready to “hold on” and that things are going to move quickly. Two completely separate individuals, two separate occasions. I have no idea what they’re talking about, and whether they’re referring to Mills Creative Minds or the Baby book (or having a baby girl pop out of Kim in late June), but I’m trying to stay as centered and laid-back as I typically am. So there’s that to chew on.

Lastly, I went to talk to a CPA about the visions and goals I have for Mills Creative Minds, and about opening it up for investors. He completely related to what God’s put in my heart, and reassured me that I’m on the right path, hearing from God correctly.

Regarding investors, it was never my plan to have any. I HAVE a small amount of seed money to start Mills Creative Minds, and He’s shown me how to accomplish my goals without spending a fortune. But He’s really put it on my heart that I should open up the company to investors and allow those who want to support it financially – with a lifetime payout – to do so.

So I’m still working out the details, but the plan is to allow those who are interested to invest in Mills Creative Minds, with a ratio of 1% per $1,000 given. (Or .5% for $500, .1 / $100, etc.) This would be for the life of the company. As in, for every dollar that’s paid to me, 50 cents will go toward churches & charities, with another 20 cents set aside for discretionary giving. The other 30 cents is what I would profit myself, and it’s off of this 30% that investors would be paid.

I’ll be working out the details in the few weeks, but if anyone’s interested or feels called to do this, just drop me an e-mail (kevin @ millscreativeminds .com – no spaces). The only requirement that I know I’ll have from the outset is that you’re willing to pray. Not only for the company and for specific licensing deals & partnerships, but also for Ray & Laura Pittman. They’re the primary reason I started down this road, and having extra prayer support is vital to their accomplishing what God’s called them to do.

To be honest, the idea of investors made me quite uncomfortable at first. Not that I don’t want to share the money. I LOVE sharing, as most of you know. But just working through the logistics of it all, going about it wisely, etc.  So last month I was praying one night, basically looking for an out. “God,” I said, “If You REALLY want me to open Mills Creative Minds up to investors, then You’re going to have to make it absolutely, positively clear. Give me a sign this next week, an irrefutable sign, so I’ll know this is straight from YOU and not just my mind playing tricks on me.”

The next day someone sent me $1,000.

Unsolicited. Before I even opened it up for investors.

So, yeah. God can be pretty clear when He wants you to do something. And He is absolutely trustworthy when you know He’s called you to do something. There’s no need to freak out anymore. Just pursue Him, listen to His whispers, and obey what He calls you to do.

And then make the choice to TRUST HIM. It’s not a feeling or wishful thinking: it’s a choice. No matter how things look or what it seems is going to happen (or NOT happen), make a decision today to have a stubborn faith and Trust Him.

Because God’s worthy of your trust.

- Kevin

Habakkuk 3:17-19

Though the fig tree does not bud and there are no grapes on the vines,
though the olive crop fails and the fields produce no food,
though there are no sheep in the pen and no cattle in the stalls,

Yet I will rejoice in the Lord, I will be joyful in God my Savior.

The Sovereign Lord is my strength; he makes my feet like the feet of a deer,
he enables me to go on the heights.

Visions Of Encouragement.

A people without vision will perish.

A few weeks ago I had a bright idea given to me. (And I say “given to me” because I firmly believe in 1 Corinthians 4:7, which says “What do you have that that you did not receive?“) As up and hopeful and positive a guy as I typically am, I’m still prone to moments of discouragement and bone-racking fear.

Fear of trying. Fear of failure. Fear of (fill in the blank). The mind plays the movies and slaps in a slideshow of “what if…?” and I’m not fast enough to turn it off. Next thing I know, I’m stuck in an infinite loop, swirling in circles around and around in my Woe Is Me toilet.

So I had an idea. Considering the fact that I’m a visual learner (I think), I wanted to give myself reminders of everything that God’s promised the last year. About Mills Creative Minds, publishing a book, being favored by God, etc. So I went online and grabbed a handful of images to serve as visual reminders for when I get knocked down. (So I can get up again. “They ain’t never gonna keep me down…“)

Then I created a slideshow on my iPhone so that I can play these preselected images in random order, watching intently. Each one reminds me of a specific promise from God, a message of hope, a picture of encouragement and reassurance that it’s all going to be okay somehow and I can breathe again.

Over the next few days I’ll share a few of the images and what they signify to me. The first one is a collection of pictures of honey (but not for the reason you might assume). Yes, I’m fanatical about the benefits of raw honey, but here it represents something else entirely.

In a few of the books I’ve read about the Favor of God, they paint a visual of God’s favor covering us like a slathering of honey. It’s sticky, sweet, and it doesn’t just “rub off” in time. God’s favor is the same way. It sticks to us and surrounds us, we don’t deserve it (the sweet gift that it is), and it constantly clings to us, despite the things that bump into us and discourage us, trying to rub it off. Plus, it’s semi-translucent, so whether we see it or feel it or not, it’s there.

Everytime I see an image of honey, I’m reminded of God’s favor. I also make a point to verbally communicate what it means to me, so my MIND will hear it and fully absorb the meaning. Quoting scripture is also ideal, but I’ll admit it doesn’t come to me easily. (Yet. :)   )

Kevin

Psalm 90:17 – “Let the favor of the Lord our God be upon us; And confirm for us the work of our hands; Yes, confirm the work of our hands.”

Growth: It’s In God’s Hands.

 

“Neither he who plants nor he who waters is anything, but only God, who makes things grow.” – 1 Corinthians 3:7

This was the verse I read yesterday morning, and it was quite applicable to what’s going on in my life these days. You see, for the past 11 months I’ve been working on developing three products for Mills Creative Minds. Doing the research, studying the market, gathering statistics, writing up a persuasive sell sheet for each, and finally preparing to get them in the hands of prospective manufacturers.

Although I’ve learned how to be my own licensing agent, I honestly don’t feel that’s what I’m supposed to do at this time. My strength lies in the forming of ideas. They come to me constantly, fluidly. My weakness is in negotiating contracts & playing the cold calling, salesman game. Understand, I’m not saying I can’t do it or don’t want to, I simply don’t think that’s what I’m supposed to do in the immediate future. So what does that mean? It means I’m going to go through a licensing agent instead.

A licensing agent is the guy who will look at my idea, see if they want to represent it, and then take it to the Big Boys. Some of them take a commission, some don’t. I’ve done a lot of research and praying, and decided to go with Harvey Reese & Matt Yubas.

So what does this have to do with the verse? Simple: I’m reaching the stage where the success of my ideas is going to be out of my hands. I’ve done my part, and now it’s time to foster partnerships and hand my precious product ideas off. As you can imagine, it’s an intimidating prospect. Terrifying, at times. But I choose not to give into my fears. I choose to have faith instead.

Not faith in the agents themselves, necessarily. Or in the validity of my ideas, for that matter. I’m talking about faith in God. Because the parallels between the verse and my life are multifaceted. A farmer plants his crop, waters it and does everything in his power to help it succeed. But ultimately? It’s up to God. God controls the weather, the soil, the very DNA programmed into the seeds themselves. Nothing can grow or flourish without the help of God. Absolutely, positively nothing.

The same is true in my life. God’s given me the ideas, the seeds. I’ve taken them, nurtured them, watered them and planted them in the most fertile area I could find. But whether they’ll grow into maturity is completely out of my hands. It’s in His hands. (This also applies to the governing scripture behind Mills Creative Minds. “All things were created by Him and for Him.” – Colossians 1:16)

And you know what? I wouldn’t have it any other way. His hands are more capable than mine. His WAYS are higher than mine. He can see the things I can’t, and I know that I can trust Him with my life, much less my spiffy product ideas.

This point was emphasized even more yesterday afternoon when I took a break from working. I went outside, sat on the bench and just relaxed. Enjoyed the moment of the day. The sun on my skin, the wind in my… goatee… the sounds of the birds and the traffic up the street. And as I sat there, God kind of gave me a vision.

I saw a small seedling, in the slow motion capture kind of film we’ve seen on the Nature Channel all our lives. (Kind of like this one on YouTube.) Anyhow, this seedling slowly pushed its way up from the soil, straightened up, and another seed suddenly popped out of the top and fell down beside it. I had expected the seed shell on top, but not the extra seed. Heck, I don’t even think such a thing is POSSIBLE in nature. At least, not in the time frame of my vision thing…

To top it all off, last night we had our LifeHouse and as a guy closed us in prayer, he prayed specifically on how all we can do is plant the seeds and commit them into God’s hands to make our plans grow. I tell ya, I got goosebumps on my neck. (If I had hair, it would’ve raised up tall…) To read that verse in the morning, have that vision in the afternoon and end with that prayer at night? Incredible. Humbling, really.

I’m excited about the future. I look forward to see what God is going to do, the doors He’s going to open, the partnerships that He is going to establish. I choose not to be afraid and play the “What If…?” game of questioning and doubt. I choose instead to Trust God with my future.

Kevin

Flow Through.

For the past few months, I’ve felt strangely disconnected from God. Like He’s there, but I don’t have the same communion with Him that I was enjoying previously. The same intimacy. Back in December I felt like He was holding my hand daily. Leading me in my decisions, speaking to me on a semi-regular basis. It was a beautiful, wonderful time.

Then January hit, and He seemed strangely absent. Then February, and March, and now April. For the past 4 months I’ve felt disconnected, uprooted or something. And I’ve wracked my brain trying to find a solution.

Self-examination, to see if there was an unconfessed sin. Fasting, from both food & music (my primary indulgences in life). Prayer, lots and lots of prayer. Quiet listening. I’ve done everything I could think of to break the barrier down, but it doesn’t seem to make a difference.

Kim pointed out recently (and quite wisely) that He’s still there, and He’s still in control of things, even if He’s not communicating with me directly right now. She said if God wanted me to know something, He’d tell me, but I can’t FORCE Him to talk, to communicate. All I can do is obey when I hear His voice, and rest in the fact that He’s in control of the relationship. He’ll reveal Himself when He’s ready to.

It’s frustrating, though. A part of me is horribly confused why God WOULDN’T reveal Himself to a child who desperately wants to know and do His will. All the promises we’ve heard about how God wants to have a personal relationship with you? That stuff kind of falls flat when you’re in a position like this. It doesn’t make sense.

Despite the silence, though, I’ve resolved to keep it up. I don’t want my faith to be built on fuzzy joy-joy feelings. To depend on the “feeling” of intimacy with Him, rather than a firm conviction that He’s always present. Faith is a decision, more than a feeling. Feelings are fluid, they change from moment to moment. I want my faith to be solid. Unmoving. Secure.

One thing I DO feel the Spirit is prompting me to do is share more. Specifically, to let His life “flow” through mine. I need to write more often. I need to share what’s going on in my life, the many ways He continues to bless me, change me, mold me into a new creation. It’s easy to get caught up in life and think only about ourselves. It’s hard to slow down, to take a moment to try to help other people around you.

I want to slow down. I want to be available for God. To do whatever He calls me to do, at a moment’s notice. I choose to live a life with margin in it. Room for flexibility. Not so rigid and structured and planned out that I can’t (or rather, WON’T) listen to Him when He speaks.
So that’s what I’m doing. Today. This week. I’m going to write more, to share more, to be more transparent.

Lord, change me. Take me in Your hands and stretch me according to Your will. I trust in Your plans, in Your goodness and Your ultimate map, whether I see where You’re leading me or not. I choose to trust in You.

Kevin

The Favor Of God: Keeping It Flowing.

Again, as I’ve mentioned in my earlier entries, enjoying the favor of God relies heavily on showing favor to others. So if you want to receive and keep the favor flowing freely in your life, you have to start it and keep it moving. Below are some of the things I’ve done and continue to do to bless others around me:

- Giving away things I don’t need or use anymore. (through Freecycle.org)

- Giving away a computer to someone in need

- Giving PaperPolisher.com away

- Providing an iPhone for a worker at church. (You read that right. I felt God wanted me to help this girl pay for an iPhone, so I sold my Centro and gave her the proceeds. No my idea, but it was unquestionably God’s, so I’m not gonna argue…)

- Sacrificial Giving. Randy Alcorn has an excellent book on giving called The Treasure Principle. That, combined with the LifeChurch.tv series “How to BE Rich” had a huge impact on how I look at money these days. Giving and sharing with others has a huge impact on God’s using us to accomplish His will. Why? Because for many of us Money is an idol, and until we give up the idea that Money will make everything better (in essence worshiping Money), God’s going to have a hard time getting through to us.

Case in point: yesterday when I was in the drive-thru at Taco Bell, buying $4 worth of flavored fat, I felt God urging me to give the attendant at the window the bill that was in my wallet.

It was a $20 bill.

I questioned whether it was God’s prompting me or just my innate desire to give, but concluded it was irrelevant in the end. Either way, the desire to give doesn’t come from within: it’s from God, not man. We’re selfish, egotistical creatures at heart. Giving doesn’t come to us naturally.

So after she handed me the food, I handed her the $20. “I know this is going to sound strange,” I said sheepishly, “But God told me to give this to you.” She kind of shrugged her shoulders and mumbled a thanks, not even looking at the bill. Certainly not the response that I had expected, but hey, I did my part.

Did it hurt to give up $20? Absolutely. Immediately my mind turned to “what I could have bought” with that $20, and how I could have spent it elsewhere. But you know what? There’s more to this life that me and what I want. There’s more to what I’m here on earth for than to fill my pockets and closets with Stuff. I’m here for God, to accomplish His will and reach people for Him. And I trust Him. So what He directs me to do, I’m gonna do. $20, $200, or $2,000 – I’ll give whatever He says to give, wherever He directs me.

Because if I truly want to align myself with The Vision that He’s placed in my heart for Mills Creative Minds, the Vision of giving away 70% of whatever I make, then I can’t hold back when it comes to giving. And I don’t want to. I want to be who He designed me to be, and that means giving. A lot. Time, money, prayer, resources. It’s who I am. It’s who I want to be. And I thank God for this.

Showing favor produces favor. Motive is absolutely key. We need to work hard to change our attitudes from one of greed to one of giving. Success isn’t dependent on our surroundings or circumstances or effort. It depends on our attitude and committing our ways to God.

Kevin

“God alone prospers and promotes us.  But it is God who judges: He brings one down, he exalts another.”  – Psalms 75:7

“Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.”   – Luke 6:38

Note: Shortly after writing this column I received a phone call from Ken Campbell at Affordable Patent Service. He called to let me know that he had stumbled across my website, and was impressed with what I’m doing at Mills Creative Minds and the vision I have for it. So he offered himself as a resource for me to call on if I ever have any specific patent questions. Just like InventRight and Stephen Key’s gift, I sincerely believe receiving favor from these men is directly linked to my responding to God’s promptings to show favor to others. I have no doubt in my mind: showing favor produces favor. I AM reaping what I’m sowing, and it’s fantastic.

The Favor Of God: Inventright

Another way I was shown God’s favor is by receiving direct favor from Stephen Key at InventRight. A month back I offered to do some editing for him in exchange for his educational CDs on licensing and inventing. He called me personally a week later and we talked for a good 15 minutes. Toward the end he let me know that although he didn’t need my editing at the time, he was going to send the entire InventRight system to me, regardless.

Now, this is a series that’s worth well over $500. (Hence, my initial offer to swap services for it.) And he sent it to me. For free. No explanation or reasoning. He just DID. He also told me to call him anytime if I ever have any questions about inventing or licensing. This is a guy who’s all over the web with articles, interviews, podcasts and the like, doing exactly what I feel I’m called to do, and he’s now a mere phone call away as a personal mentor.

Now that, my friends, is the favor of God working firsthand in my life, opening doors and establishing relationships to help me pursue His goals and dreams. He’s led me every step of the way, and I look forward to where 2009′s going to take me.

Kevin

The Favor Of God: Technology

- I was given a full-sized, L-style desk (see picture below). This has been vital in allowing me to spread out my materials and sort through ideas on the ample desk space.

- I was given a Dual Processor 500Mhz G4 Tower, as well as a 21″ monitor. Both free.

- I was given a fax machine. (Makes it quite a bit easier to have Non-Disclosure Agreements returned to me. Faster than snail mail.)

- I was given a sub-compact mini-laptop. (An NEC MobilePro 780, see below.) It’s basically a keyboard and a half-sized monitor that folds into a nicely compact, portable unit. This has been instrumental in allowing me to write anywhere and anytime, utterly free of distractions and temptations that a full laptop comes with. This is also why I’ve been able to write so many blog entries lately. And since a large part of what God’s calling me to do these days is through written communication, this thing is a LIFESAVER.

- I was given an iPhone over Thanksgiving. Not sold. GIVEN. For FREE. People give away dogs. They give away old clothes. They give away underwear. They do NOT give away iPhones. If that‘s not the direct Favor of God, what is? But this is also incredible in terms of timing, because since this gift God has led me to pursue iPhone & iPod Touch applications as my first foray into licensing. So not only is it just nice to have, but it’s also integral in helping me accomplish what God wants me to do at this point in time. (I  CANNOT understate how cool it is to know you’re working in God’s will, and with His supernatural blessing. I wouldn’t have it any other way.)

- I was later given an iPhone Case as well (a nice rubber one I was hoping for!)

The Favor Of God: Relationships

“For whoever finds me (wisdom) finds life and receives favor from the Lord.” – Proverbs 8:35

Below are some of the many ways God has shown me His incredible favor the past few months.

- When searching for a Nanny for Kaleb to allow me to work in the mornings, God provided a Godly woman named Rhonda who lived within 5 minutes of us. In addition to this, she’s also affordable and genuinely cares for him. We thank God for Rhonda more times than we can count.

- About a month after watching Kaleb, Rhonda offered to watch him until 2:30pm each day, rather than the standard 1:00pm. She offered this for NO EXTRA CHARGE. This gives me an additional 7.5 hours of work time per week. That’s INCREDIBLE! Her generosity has made a HUGE impact on what I’m able to accomplish each week.

- I received an unexpected refund check for $300 from my lawyers. Apparently there was a miscommunication with the secretary and they had accidentally overcharged me for the formation of my LLC. Now, how often do you hear THAT happening? (The refund part, that is… not being overcharged by a lawyer…)

- The freelance graphic artist I work with lowered her hourly rate specifically to support what I’m doing with Mills Creative Minds. This was completely unprompted and unexpected. And appreciated. :)

The Favor Of God, Pt. 3.

The favor of God is often referred to as something Christians should “claim.” It’s an odd concept, “claiming” a right as a Christian. To try to clarify what this means, I figured I’d share what it means for me, personally, to “claim” God’s favor in my life.

I make a point to constantly remind myself that I’m loved and favored by God. I tell myself that His favor is being poured out on me daily, like a huge barrel of honey. It covers me and smothers me from head to toe, and it’s super-sticky. And not only am I surrounded by it, but it rubs off onto those around me. It’s sweet and delicious and it’s meant to be shared.

Because just as God pours His thick favor upon ME, I am an ambassador of His favor to those around me. I am responsible to show unparalleled favor to the other people He puts me in contact with. It’s a cycle, and to get that flow started we sometimes have to jumpstart it with a sacrificial gift ourselves.

I say “sacrificial” because I believe that when we give something up and it actually costs us – financially, emotionally, etc. – such an act is noticed and rewarded by God. That’s exactly what I believe happened when He led me to give money away in October (and again this month). It hurt to give. But I sincerely believe my obedience unlocked His future gifts of favor that I would have cheated myself out of if I had decided to ignore or resist His leading.

Galatians 6:7 addresses this concept perfectly. “A man reaps what he sows.” You really can’t get any clearer than that, can you? Yet we all know people who make a habit of pointing to everyone else in their life as “the problem.” “If only THEY did this…” or “If only THEY weren’t so ______”  You get the picture.

Responsibility: it’s not for everyone. (Apparently…)

You want it? You gotta give it first. Whatever you sow – encouragement, money, love… negativity, greed, selfishness – you’re gonna reap.

Don’t like what you’ve been getting in this life?
Time to take a closer look at what you’re giving.

In the next few days I’ll be sharing how God’s favor has been unleashed in my life. How, by simply believing in His love and desire to bless me, I have received far more than I could have ever asked for. He has blessed me beyond my imagination (and my imagination is a mighty fertile playground, lemme tell ya).

The good news is He wants to do this for everyone. Every single one of us who claims Jesus as his savior is heir to the kingdom. Not just the kingdom in the next life, but everything that God wants to give us in this life as well. (And those of you who are only thinking in terms of cash or lottery winnings are thinking way too small. Trust me.)

More to come,

Kevin

The Favor Of God, Pt. 2

“For the Lord God is a sun and shield; the Lord bestows favor and honor; no good thing does he withhold from those whose walk is blameless.”     – Psalms 84:11

One of the foremost arguments when discussing the concept of favor is that it’s works-based. That we can manipulate God’s willingness to dish out gobs and gobs of favor based on how we act or what we do. This idea is half correct.

On the one hand, God is a generous, loving God who wants to give us good things. And He is the one who controls the favor, not me. He’s the only one who provides for all my needs. My part is to just reach out and accept what He’s freely given. And that can prove to be difficult.

It’s not easy to fully comprehend that He genuinely wants to give good things to me, to bless me beyond anything I could conceive of. It’s also not easy to trust that He’s going to meet my needs, regardless of what my circumstances may look like. Because let’s face it, sometimes we find ourselves in situations where we’re just not convinced everything’s going to work out in the end.

God provides us with everything – absolutely everything. (“What do you have that you did not receive?” 1 Corinthians 4:7) We can no more manipulate Him to give more favor than we can get Him to give us more oxygen each day. Or make the sun shine more. Or make the sky bluer. These things are all freely given, and in the same way they can’t be increased, we also can’t earn any of them. The only thing that makes us “blameless” in the earlier verse is our identity in Jesus Christ. So nothing we do can make God love us more than He already does.

But what we do moment by moment CAN influence His desire to favor us with more than we deserve. Just as a parent would want to reward a child for their obedience and wise or generous decisions, God wants to reward those who live according to His will. It’s simple cause and effect.

Kevin

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